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Reality Check? ‘Cupid Can’t Aim’

Under: Uncategorized @ 1:52 am on Monday, 02.13.06

Be my anti-Valentine. By Olivia Barker, USA TODAY 

Traditionally sweet symbols and sayings are getting tweaked in the card and gift aisles, resulting in teddy bears that are more wry than warm and fuzzy and candies that are more sarcastic than saccharine.

 It’s a reflection of the anti-Valentine sentiment that’s been streaking through the holiday for the past few years, with singletons asserting their solidarity in Feb. 14 parties that champion camaraderie over coupling.

After all, divorces, prenuptial agreements and annulments historically spike around Valentine’s Day — 36%, 28% and 21% respectively in 2005, according to LegalMatch.com — so why not archly acknowledge the holiday’s less-romantic side with a T-shirt that proclaims “Cupid can’t aim”?

 

Yet Valentine’s Day is the third biggest gift giving holiday after Christmas and Mother’s Day!  I never actually understood the concept of Valentine’s Day! Other than the fact it’s purely commercial … after all, why would anyone want to celebrate their ‘love’ and appreciation for another on a date picked by God knows who?!

5 Comments »

lizard of oz

02.13.06 @ 6:34 am

Exactly… why would celebrating love be confined to a specific date?

Rihab

02.13.06 @ 7:02 am

eh! such bitter people *rolling eyes*

:F

But yeah everyday should be a Valentine. What’s funny is that they did a survey here in Britain, which showed that most women disliked it when their partners sent flowers/chocolate to their workplace, but loved it when they didn’t know who it was.

Hamzeh N.

02.13.06 @ 7:48 pm

“Be my anti-valentine”

Ok, say I’m gonna be somebody’s anti-valentine, I assume that means that we won’t be giving each other anything on Valentine’s Day, right?

Now, does that include SMS? If we send each other SMS messages, does that mean we’ve broken the anti-valentine pact?

Coz if that’s the case, then a simple SMS message should be enough as a gift on Valentine’s Day between couples who take it seriously. No?

Something tells guys will appreciate this thought more than girls will.

Iman

02.14.06 @ 12:02 am

Ola, Hallmark says so :razz:

Rihab, So these surveyed ladies prefer to receive flowers from a secret admirer?

Hamzeh N. I don’t know .. Other than the fact that it’s pure commercial, Valentine’s Day doesn’t make any sense to me what-so-ever!

And actually, women hold great value and appreciation for sentimental - it’s the thought that counts - gifts

Rihab

02.15.06 @ 2:27 am

Yup, they prefer gifts from a secret admirer.

You’re right about the sentimental gifts. It doesn’t have to be an overblown expression of love, the simplest gestures tend to be the sweetest.

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