Comments on: Little Miss Bitch

By: Cindy

Cindy — Thu, 10 Aug 2006 22:04:21 +0000

I am reading both of Sherry Argov’s books and love them. I think they are intended for American and western audiences mostly, as far as the attitudes and the fact that much of what she writes is tongue-in-cheeck and not meant to be taken extremely seriously. I still think any woman anywhere could get a great deal out of the book, especially if she leans toward being “too nice” which I always have. Its for those of us who have done all we can for someone and then can’t figure out why he left for someone who wouldn’t do half for him what we did. Not sure if that makes sense, but it helps not to take this book too seriously. It helped me make a lot of sense out of things I didn’t understand.

By: Iman

Iman — Tue, 11 Jul 2006 01:18:18 +0000

How do I define good? Take a look at 7 ways to win my heart! :grin:

5 years ago I was 23 …My thoughts with regards to what I look for in a partner have no changed drastically…but there are certain things that I may compromise now that I would not have at 23.

By: Rami Samhan

Rami Samhan — Mon, 10 Jul 2006 06:11:45 +0000

and how would you define the “good” man?

is it the same definition you had 5 years ago?

my point is “as I have one”, that with time, experience, this definition keeps changing, your standards get much high, that “less” men can fit there

By: Iman

Iman — Mon, 10 Jul 2006 01:03:50 +0000

Osaid, the author presents her points from a man’s perspective..why is that so odd?

Rami, lack of good men! got any? :grin:

By: Rami Samhan

Rami Samhan — Sun, 09 Jul 2006 13:08:07 +0000

can I ask something? sounds like I can :d

is it the lack of men proposing? or the lack of “good” men proposing? that makes yourself and your friends still single?

By: osaid

osaid — Fri, 07 Jul 2006 03:08:46 +0000

What a dialogue !

This article written by that author was odd I believe.
Men do seek so many qualities in a women, most important of which are not related to any of the above mentioned I believe.
The argument of men labeling women as bitches for certain qualities of theirs is related to cultural aspects not more.In our culture I think that such arguments jsut do not fit.

regardless..
What do woment want to see in their future men ?

By: Iman

Iman — Fri, 07 Jul 2006 02:25:31 +0000

Qwaider, any woman - regardless of how confident or not, independent or not she is - needs a man! We have emotional needs that have/need to be met which our good friends, family, even books and pets cannot offer but only a man can…A confident woman can still choose to seek a man’s advice/opinion on important matters…Some women may believe that they can live their entire lives man free…while it may be true, I am sure that down the line, these women will have deep bitterness residing within them that will stick around for a very long time - if not completely for ever!
and that quality man you describe is the one I would want to confide in, depend on (I mean sometimes, and no matter how hard I try, that pickle jar just doesn’t wanna open! It’s frustrating… or at the end of a long day, when my feet cannot hold me up…a good foot massage can be the answer), feel secure in the presence of, let my guard completely down with…bottom line: a woman will always need a man, but not just any man!

Rihab, I guess so .. but like I said, playing hard to get is just plain pathetic! If you know what you want, test the waters, and take a dive …

Hamzeh, what makes you so certain that every girl with a strong character believes that? And you didn’t tell me, what are you suggesting?

Shaden … yeah that’s right! now for future reference, try taking your own advice :grin:

Hi Sarah, respect is very important..for each other, for each’s privacy, time and space!

Ola, LOL. You know there is truth in what shaden suggests … it all goes back to the individual…I remember a few weeks ago, my friend and I got together for a friend’s birthday…the crowd was all married except for two…One of the girls there was here in Chicago visiting from Amman and came along with one of my friends. She was very surprised to learn that all these girls were married and are out without their husbands. And even more suprised to find out that their husbands were doing their own thing either at home or with their own friends…she commented how her husband who is in Amman would not appreciate her going out and leaving him home alone…

we all need our space every now and then!

By: Ola

Ola — Fri, 07 Jul 2006 00:28:52 +0000

nt is, girls shouldn’t try to understand what men want or how to get their attention. Just do what you gotta do or leave them alone, never try to disturb their peace.

Rephrasing what you said shaden: Lamma bedhom ytayso… betayso.

By: Shaden

Shaden — Thu, 06 Jul 2006 23:32:09 +0000

ya 7a2?

inshallah 3orsak 2abel 3orsi to2borni mo na29ak she laikak isim Allah 7arsak alf benet btetmannak

Allah raitak tonfok wakhla9 mennak ya rub, kool ameen.

By: Hamzeh N.

Hamzeh N. — Thu, 06 Jul 2006 23:00:12 +0000

Allah yerda 3alaiki ya benti ya SugarCubes wallahe enni 6ool 3omri ba2ool 3annek bent 3a2leh wo adameyyeh.

Roo7i Allaaaah yeb3atlek ibn el 7alal elli bteshtahee nafsek yhanneeki wo et-hanneeh, yerdeeki wo terdeeh, y6a3meeki wo et-6a3meeh, wo khamseh wo khmaiseh b 3ain 3adowweenek esmallah 7olek wo 7awalaiki nshoofik 3aroos bi yoom el 3eed, da3wet omm radyeh wo radyaneh 3an bent-ha b’jaah el nabi et-hanneeha yaaaa 7a2!!!!