aish hada!

Under: Random Thoughts, Ugh! @ 1:01 pm on Friday, 01.26.07

Just create a profile and see what might come out of it. It doesn’t hurt to try! Just think of it as one of every other experience one goes through. Besides, being on is a lot of fun…you’ll have the chance to see all types and even have the capability of customizing your preference. Try it! But of course to get the benefits of all features you have to pay.

Ok. that’s just absurd! Why would I pay for such thing? Well, why would I even entertain the idea of being part of such site? Definitely not a good idea…and do I really have time to waste? maybe I do…but not on this type of thing…I mean, there are a lot of psychos out there…how do I guarantee someone is telling the truth? The best way is for it to naturally happen. Why go out of my way trying to make something happen … chances are it’s not going to. Just let it be. Instead of spending two, three hours online –definitely a waste of time and will bring nothing but headaches - sifting through loser material profiles why not go out, have a change of scenery and just enjoy!

If I were single, I would definitely create a profile and spend at least two hours a day on every single night. It’s just a way of expanding your options…we really don’t have much here and our chances of coming across someone are very slim!

Whatever.

To satisfy my curiosity…
Created profile.
Maybe something great will come out of this…
Sifted through profiles.
Did not spend more than 10 minutes on.
What the hell?
Loser.
Looks good.
Hmm, impressive.
Ah, not too impressive.
Ewww.
You have got to be kidding me!
Some people actually pay for this service?
Some people actually spend more than 10 minutes on here?
Those who don’t pay spend time online hoping someone would send them a message?
Or perhaps someone will initiate an IM conversation?
Or maybe someone will send them a flirt? Aww, isn’t that… cute? some get poked elsewhere though!
Am I outta my mind?
Ugh! I am not desperate!
Do these people have lives?
I sure do …

And so while it may work for some, the only great thing that came out of it for me is that I got to see for myself what a complete waste of time this short extremely pathetic experience has been!

9 Comments »

Qwaider قويدر

01.26.07 @ 1:35 pm

Did you sign up for Eharmony or match DOT com?
Or is this Naseeb?
Many of those going around these days!
Well, it’s either this, or Auntie Fat7yyeh hooking you up with her husband’s cousin who has little birdies on his socks :)

queenie

01.28.07 @ 12:03 am

I’ve been tempted to creat a profile somewhere as well, but didn’t do it….it’s just soooo….weird? I know plenty of people who’ve married people they’ve met online (cousins and family friends), but the idea still needs some getting used to for me..

Iman

01.28.07 @ 1:44 pm

Q, it’s neither!

queenie, like I said it works for some..I just found it tedious and very pathetic.

Rihab

01.29.07 @ 2:33 pm

Yeah those sites are a waste of time, I joined a couple because of friends sending invitation requests but I don’t get how it works. Why would anyone decide on wanting to get to know you through what you write on your profile?? And some people put a lot of effort in those profiles so they turn out like mini-biographies. Anyway, good thing I get to write that I’m taken, I think it keeps all those weird wife-pickers away.

Iman

01.29.07 @ 2:47 pm

I guess it works the same way as if you were to be introduced to someone through a friend, etc. Like I said, it works for some and not for others…I just do find it a waste of time when one finds himself spending hours and hours on there searching through profiles and waiting to be contacted by someone.. others find it a way to pass time … bored perhaps, not much to do…and hoping for something good to come out of the ‘fun!’

Rihab

01.29.07 @ 2:53 pm

Not really, when you’re introduced through a friend you know you may have at least some things in common with that person since you have a mutual friend. With this, you don’t know anything about the people who are there and you’re actually go through lists of people looking for someone who matches whatever criteria you have in your head; it’s almost reducing marriage and relationships to catalogue shopping… it’s weird.

Julie

01.29.07 @ 4:07 pm

Hey single guys & gals…Please contact me if you need help finding that special someone in my book “Mishan Allah Hook Me Up!…front cover is already taken by Iman sorry”

Iman

01.29.07 @ 7:13 pm

Rihab, I understand what you’re saying but though I may not think it’s the best way to meet someone, it remains a way that if used properly something good can come out of it …

Julie, :lol: We’ll see what happens when I visit you this summer…lool probably nothing:p

Julie

01.31.07 @ 2:43 pm

We’ll see how well you do this month. Maybe you’ll be on next month’s front headline, showing off your bling bling! Hehehe

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